As a wife, this new "fad" touches me to the core. What's the need to attract someones husband? NOT boyfriend, not baby daddy, but HUSBAND? How inconsiderate, lowdown, and dirty. Is it the thrill of the chase? Is it because senseless broads want a hubby? Drop comments when I'm done and let me know the reasoning.... if any.
Let's explore some married man lovers, shall we? Up first, Leann Rimes. Leann is a cute country girl with a hell of a voice. BUT Leann left her husband for another woman's husband after they fell in love on a made for TV movie set. Now this movie they made took 4 months to shoot (I googled it) so you mean to tell me she fell in love in 4 months and was in enough love that the two of them ended their marriages?! Leann is quoted as saying she has "no regrets" for how her relationship has played out. Wow.
Now, of all the people to take someones husband you never ever ever thought it would be Alicia Keys huh? Well color us crazy but Keys hooked up with Swizz Beatz while the man was still legally married. Then once Beatz handled his business and divorced his ex-wife he quickly and suddenly wifed up A. Keys and they had a baby (damn a healing period). I wonder if Alicia feels a little guilty for having a hand in ending a marriage?
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| Fantasia, Leann Rimes, Leah, and Alicia Keys Pics from Google |
Finally, my last and most notable married man lover is....... Fantasia Barrino. Oh Tasia c'mon girl! Homeboy worked at the local T-mobile for Pete's sake. I'm not going to go in on Tasia because she has suffered enough. I can honestly say I have little remorse for Tasia because I don't think she was in her right mind when she attempted to take her life. She has a young daughter who should have been her main priority not the married man or the media circus that haunted her. HOWEVER, I am giving my second "high-five" award to the man's wife! This women took it upon herself to sue Tasia for breaking up her marriage. Now while there is co-blame here at least she took a stand on something that was wrong. (Only 7 states have this law North Carolina, Illinois, New Mexico, South Carolina, Utah, South Dakota, and Hawaii).
Single women who seek married men, such a tacky conundrum. SW4MM - I wonder if it's an acronym on backpage personals, Match.com's and OnlineBootyCall's?
ReplyDeleteThat woman's story is not mine. Never has been, never will be. Even having being involved with a married man (unbeknownst to me), I feel confident in saying I'd never be in that position knowingly.
That said, I believe some chickens date married men intentionally because
1) They don't want the liability of owning a husband. In the same regard people rent houses and cars, and babysit their friends children. It's nice to enjoy as a commodity for a while, then, when done, return to it's owner and go about your business.
2) They were careless with their loving. I don't think you can fall in love with someone, having not met their friends and family or been to their house. It's like buying a car without seeing the carfax first. Then, once you sign on the line, you find out about the fine print "Man comes with wife and kids...". Some back out at that point, others feel that, it's too late and that they'll wait it out.
3) Without getting too deep - Plenty of us grew up with no male father figure. As adults, the issue of dealing with that void may translate into a womans want or search for an intangible, evasive, male love. Some women subconsciously overlook the available, present, single man who treats them well and, instead, work to attain the love of someone who belongs to another and has, by default, rejected their love or doesn't have room to love them completely. It's a kind of self-inflicted torture, I believe. That woman will feel validated if she is able to "earn" or "win" the love of that married man, the way she was unable to "earn" or "win" the love of her absent father.
IMO, these don't apply to each situation, but I'd hazard a guess that, at least, one of these reasons are valid in most situations where single women date married men.
-tis all.
"This women took it upon herself to sue Tasia for breaking up her marriage."
ReplyDeleteHow did she break up "her" marriage if "she" is still married? Besides you can't break something that's already broken.
But the real question is what's the husband's punishment?
That's who she should of have sued IJS!