WANTED: Married Men

Back in the day it was light skinned men. Everybody wanted a yellow bone brotha. Then once those were taken the emergence of dark skinned men came onto the scene. Once women got sick of men they went to women (remember, "my girl has a girlfriend"??). Today, it seems that married men are on the top of a single woman's "must have" list and for the love of life I can't understand why? What is it about married men that intrigues women to go after them? Why cant they stay away from someone who vowed to be with their significant other for life?

As a wife, this new "fad" touches me to the core. What's the need to attract someones husband? NOT boyfriend, not baby daddy, but HUSBAND? How inconsiderate, lowdown, and dirty. Is it the thrill of the chase? Is it because senseless broads want a hubby? Drop comments when I'm done and let me know the reasoning.... if any.

Let's explore some married man lovers, shall we? Up first, Leann Rimes. Leann is a cute country girl with a hell of a voice. BUT Leann left her husband for another woman's husband after they fell in love on a made for TV movie set. Now this movie they made took 4 months to shoot (I googled it) so you mean to tell me she fell in love in 4 months and was in enough love that the two of them ended their marriages?! Leann is quoted as saying she has "no regrets" for how her relationship has played out. Wow.

Now, of all the people to take someones husband you never ever ever thought it would be Alicia Keys huh? Well color us crazy but Keys hooked up with Swizz Beatz while the man was still legally married. Then once Beatz handled his business and divorced his ex-wife he quickly and suddenly wifed up A. Keys and they had a baby (damn a healing period). I wonder if Alicia feels a little guilty for having a hand in ending a marriage?



Fantasia, Leann Rimes, Leah, and Alicia Keys
Pics from Google

 Rolling my eyes and moving on to the next one (ha! No Swizz Beatz pun intended) how about Leah from Bad Girl's Club Miami. If you aren't familiar with BGC its like the Real World meets Mean Girls meets Player's Club (times 10). Leah is in a relationship with a married man. This man was even seen on the show (bold ass dude). But riddle me this, how come Leah got enraged when Brandi called her out for messing with married men? She packed her stuff and moved out of the room and acted like the girl was lying and lets face it, she got called out! My first High-five award goes to Brandi!!

Finally, my last and most notable married man lover is....... Fantasia Barrino. Oh Tasia c'mon girl! Homeboy worked at the local T-mobile for Pete's sake. I'm not going to go in on Tasia because she has suffered enough. I can honestly say I have little remorse for Tasia because I don't think she was in her right mind when she attempted to take her life. She has a young daughter who should have been her main priority not the married man or the media circus that haunted her. HOWEVER, I am giving my second "high-five" award to the man's wife! This women took it upon herself to sue Tasia for breaking up her marriage. Now while there is co-blame here at least she took a stand on something that was wrong. (Only 7 states have this law North Carolina, Illinois, New Mexico, South Carolina, Utah, South Dakota, and Hawaii).

So folks to wrap this up and before I get a ton of messages (I would like a ton of messages on this to be honest) the men were wrong as well. BUT men with wives are off limits. Sometimes going down this route can lead to nothing but trouble. -D